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Ep. 24 - You Can't Control Other People (Bucket #2)
The heaviest thing you will ever try to carry is a person who doesn't want to change. It’s time to drop the weight.Are you exhausted from trying to manage how other people act, think, or respond to you?In this episode of The Dee Hankins Show, we are opening Bucket #2: Others' Choices. This is the bucket that causes 99% of your headaches and drains your energy. We convince ourselves that if we just argue louder or text one more time, we can control someone else's behavior.But trying to control Bucket #2 is like leaving the driver's seat of your own car to push someone else's broken-down vehicle. You are abandoning your Seat of Power.Today, we are talking to the "CEO of You." We’re breaking down why holding a grudge is actually resource mismanagement, the "Unplugged Controller" trap, and why forgiveness is brutal work. Plus, I’m giving you three exact scripts to use so you can finally put the controller down.In this episode, we cover:The Danger Zone: Why their actions, reactions, and apologies are none of your business.The Unplugged Controller: The massive mental cost of being angry at something you can't control.The Invoice of Forgiveness: Why you are paying the rent for the grudge you’re holding.The Toolkit: 3 word-for-word scripts to release the anger and set professional boundaries.Timestamps:0:00 - Intro: The Heaviest Thing You’ll Carry1:54 - Bucket #2: The Danger Zone4:20 - The Unplugged Controller (Resource Mismanagement)6:07 - The Bucket #2 Problem9:44 - The Brutal Work of Forgiveness11:21 - 3 Scripts to Help You Let Go15:28 - Outro & Building Real ResilienceBring The Potential Protocol and 3-Bucket Philosophy to Your Team:Stop losing your best people to burnout. If your organization is ready to stop making excuses, manage their buckets, and start solving problems, let's get to work.Book Dee for a full or half-day training: www.DeeHankins.comAbout Dee Hankins:Dee Hankins is a Human Behavior and Resilience expert, speaker, and content creator dedicated to helping you hit life's curveballs for home runs.#Resilience #Leadership #Boundaries #Forgiveness #Mindset #DeeHankins #PersonalGrowthThe heaviest thing you will ever try to carry is a person who doesn't want to change. It’s time to drop the weight.
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By Dee HankinsThe heaviest thing you will ever try to carry is a person who doesn't want to change. It’s time to drop the weight.Are you exhausted from trying to manage how other people act, think, or respond to you?In this episode of The Dee Hankins Show, we are opening Bucket #2: Others' Choices. This is the bucket that causes 99% of your headaches and drains your energy. We convince ourselves that if we just argue louder or text one more time, we can control someone else's behavior.But trying to control Bucket #2 is like leaving the driver's seat of your own car to push someone else's broken-down vehicle. You are abandoning your Seat of Power.Today, we are talking to the "CEO of You." We’re breaking down why holding a grudge is actually resource mismanagement, the "Unplugged Controller" trap, and why forgiveness is brutal work. Plus, I’m giving you three exact scripts to use so you can finally put the controller down.In this episode, we cover:The Danger Zone: Why their actions, reactions, and apologies are none of your business.The Unplugged Controller: The massive mental cost of being angry at something you can't control.The Invoice of Forgiveness: Why you are paying the rent for the grudge you’re holding.The Toolkit: 3 word-for-word scripts to release the anger and set professional boundaries.Timestamps:0:00 - Intro: The Heaviest Thing You’ll Carry1:54 - Bucket #2: The Danger Zone4:20 - The Unplugged Controller (Resource Mismanagement)6:07 - The Bucket #2 Problem9:44 - The Brutal Work of Forgiveness11:21 - 3 Scripts to Help You Let Go15:28 - Outro & Building Real ResilienceBring The Potential Protocol and 3-Bucket Philosophy to Your Team:Stop losing your best people to burnout. If your organization is ready to stop making excuses, manage their buckets, and start solving problems, let's get to work.Book Dee for a full or half-day training: www.DeeHankins.comAbout Dee Hankins:Dee Hankins is a Human Behavior and Resilience expert, speaker, and content creator dedicated to helping you hit life's curveballs for home runs.#Resilience #Leadership #Boundaries #Forgiveness #Mindset #DeeHankins #PersonalGrowthThe heaviest thing you will ever try to carry is a person who doesn't want to change. It’s time to drop the weight.