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EP 2403 - More on Dating App Icebreakers: The Overbaked Lasagna Edition

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In this episode, Teresa Conway discusses writing effective icebreaker messages for online dating. She analyzes a listener-submitted icebreaker, highlights common mistakes, and provides an effective alternative.

Episode Highlights:
  • Analysis of an "over-baked lasagna" message
  • Common mistakes in icebreakers:
    • Weaker, unconfident language
  • Unnecessary repetition
  • Asking inappropriate questions too soon
  • A recommended approach for effective icebreakers
  • Key elements of a successful first message
    • Key Takeaways:
    • Keep messages concise and confident
  • Demonstrate that you've read the person's profile
  • Focus on making a connection, not gathering information
  • Use a friendly, casual tone
  • Avoid overwriting - stick to four key elements:
    • greeting,
  • acknowledgment,
  • connection,
  • invitation
    • Quotable:

    "If you've got an icebreaker that is more than four sentences long, stop. You're probably making a mistake."

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