Pay special attention to this episode if you just got engaged or if your big day is coming up soon, because this episode is about how to make it special. First and foremost, you should focus on what you and your partner want, rather than family expectations.

Family expectations can sway you from doing what’s right for you as a couple, so stay intentional and silence the noise on what other people think you should do. If you ask for advice, that’s a whole different story. If you’re opening up the conversation, you’re likely to get opinions about your wedding plan.

Another really helpful tip is to not work in the week leading up to your wedding. During that week, do things that relieve stress and keep you grounded. Don’t worry about last minute coordinating and planning. If you need something to keep your mind occupied, book a massage and do your best to relax.

Another tip may be an unpopular opinion, but go with comfort over style on your wedding day. While stylish components like long veils look great, they are heavy and hard to wear throughout the day. Consider alternatives that can give you a bridal look without the discomfort. A great person to consult about this is your wedding hairstylist, who is there to help you bring your look together in a way that looks and feels good.

There are tons of other ways you can get the most out of your wedding day, such as adding flexibility into your timeline, wearing your wedding shoes in advance, including time in the day for just you and your partner, not turning your entire wedding day into one long photoshoot, and hiring vendors you trust.

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