Healing Myself

Ep. 27: Black love travels well.


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Travelling and seeing/experiencing new things are such magical experiences… Especially if you’re with people that you love. 

Today we share the highlights of our #baecations from the past 3 years  We share accommodations (highs and lows) and reflections from our trips to Cancun, Nashville, and Myrtle Beach.


WHAT TO LISTEN FOR: 

Highlights of the Cancun a.k.a proposal trip [6:47] 

  • The proposal trip to Cancun (the surprise birthday-turned-proposal dinner)

  • The funny story of the proposal couple T-shirt that didn’t get to be worn 

  • The quick change of proposal place because of the bad weather (which wasn’t so bad)

Favorite moments from tiny house trip (Nashville) and the Myrtle Beach trip  [16:23]

  • Being immersed in nature 

  • Spending time with friends doing all sorts of things 

  • Moments of prayer 

  • Great food, good company, good music 

Least favorite moments [22:49]

  • The feeling of being discriminated against

  • The “special package” that didn’t feel special 

  • The hotel that felt dusty 

The haze of travelling [31:21]

  • Despite planning, plans can change  any moment 

  • Unclean water 

Lessons from the trips [38:30]

  • Experiencing new things together contribute to a healthier relationship

  • You can still manage to enjoy despite the things that didn’t go your way 


RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE

Listen to Un-thinkable by Alicia Keys

Listen to Free Mind by Tems  

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Healing MyselfBy Scott and Shaté Hayes