GET READY, I get a little preachy in this! I want what's best for you. In a perfect world, you'd be able to rock everything the first time without question. But in the world we live in, you need to learn from your setbacks and your mistakes. Life is going to throw its' punches at you in full force, and there isn't much you can do to stop it except get back up, dust yourself off, look your adversary in the face and say "that wasn't all that bad."