Ever feel like something’s off in a relationship — like the connection used to be there, but now there’s a weird space you can’t quite name? In this episode, we unpack “the gap” — that subtle (or not-so-subtle) distance between where a relationship is and where you wish it was. Whether it’s with a partner, friend, coworker, or your own kids, we explore how using COIN (Confirm it, Own it, Be Intentional, Change the Nature of Everything) can help you identify what’s really going on, take responsibility, and start showing up differently. No psychology degree required — just honesty, curiosity, and maybe a sense of humor. Let’s talk about how to close that gap without losing yourself.