Stop Guessing. Start Knowing.

Last episode, we established that Resilience is a system, not a feeling. But a system is only as effective as the data you feed it. If you don't know who you are, you are trying to run high-performance protocols on hardware you don’t even recognize.

In Episode 29, Dee Hankins breaks down why the most important pivot you will ever make is moving from asking "What’s wrong with me?" to "What happened to me?" Most people are living by default, reacting to curveballs they should have seen coming. It’s time to take the blindfold off, run the diagnostic, and get a baseline for your life.

In this episode, we cover:

• The Danger of the Unknown Self: Why living without a baseline makes you a passenger in your own life.

• Predictability as Power: How self-knowledge allows you to see your reactions before they happen.

• The Diagnostic Trio: A deep dive into the three foundational tests that provide your technical specifications.

• From Shame to Strategy: How shifting your perspective on your history allows you to build a system that actually works.

"You cannot manage what you have not measured. Stop guessing why you’re frustrated and start running the audit."

Use these links to establish your baseline. These are the technical specs for your life:

1. The ACES Score (Your History)Identify the childhood data that programmed your current stress response.

• Take the ACES Quiz

2. The Enneagram (Your Motivation)Understand the core fear and core desire driving your daily decisions.

• Take the Enneagram Test (RHETI)

3. The 5 Love Languages (Your Maintenance)Identify your specific refueling protocol to prevent burnout.

• Take the Love Languages Quiz

Connect with Dee:

• Book a Workshop: DeeHankins.com

• Instagram: @IamDeeHankins

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