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You’re not confused.

You’re just holding onto
who they used to be.

And that’s why you keep making exceptions
for behavior you’d never accept from anyone else.

In this episode of Rebuilt Different, I break down how nostalgia bias keeps you stuck—why loyalty turns into lowered standards, and how to recognize when it’s no longer a mistake…

It’s a pattern.

At some point, you have to stop remembering who they were—
and respond to who they are.