We explore the critical importance of setting boundaries in polyamorous relationships and share our personal experiences with establishing rules that work for our dynamic.

• Communication is the foundation of polyamory and essential for setting boundaries that prevent jealousy
• Creating a "needs, wants, and requirements" list helps clarify your relationship expectations and boundaries
• Requirements are non-negotiable aspects of relationships that warrant disengagement if not respected
• Establishing a secure foundation in your existing relationship before seeking new partners is crucial
• Setting boundaries about when to introduce new partners helps manage expectations and emotions
• Addressing problems immediately rather than letting them fester strengthens relationship communication
• Setting boundaries protects against insecurities and honors past traumas in relationships
• Creating space for individual decompression and alone time is an important boundary for many
• Boba dates provide a low-pressure way to meet potential partners without expectations
• The boundaries you set will evolve over time as your relationships and needs change

Make sure you write down your needs, wants, and requirements list. This will serve as your relationship cheat sheet and help you communicate your boundaries clearly with current and future partners.

🍽️ Welcome to the Spoonful of Polyamory Podcast 🥄❤️
Hosted by ItsTheMazoku and AsaniDragonscale, this show is your cozy seat at the kitchen table where we serve up real talk about polyamory, relationships, communication, and connection. Whether you're polyam-curious, seasoned in ethical non-monogamy, or just love good conversation—there’s a spoonful here for everyone.

We break down terms, explore real-life scenarios, and create a safe, affirming space to learn and laugh along the way.

🫖 Pull up a chair. Pour some tea. Let’s talk polyamory—together.