With so much negative stigma surrounding the lifestyle (in the vanilla world), our involvement in the lifestyle is a secretive one. But that doesn't stop me from WANTING to talk about it with some of my closest vanilla friends. I am "compelled to tell" them about it...but I can't. In this episode I'll dive into some of the hoops Eva and I have had to jump through to keep our lifestyle involvement a secret and why it has to be this way.