On Her Own Terms

Ep. 31: OMG! I Live Someone Else's Life. Now What?!


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Do you often ask yourself: "Whose life am I living? Who am I? What do I want?" 🤷‍♀️

Do you feel like you please everyone else, yet you don't know what YOU actually want?🙈

Are you beyond the roles (a good daughter, hard-working employee, great mother, etc.) you play? 👩‍🦰🤱🏼👩🏼‍🎓👩🏽‍💼


Do you believe there is more to life than growing up, going to university, having a "perspective job", finding a nice husband, raising kids, and dying?

⚡️What are your true desires?⚡️ 


Annie and Niki had lived lives that didn't feel like theirs and in this episode, they share their stories and the process that helped them become happier and more authentic.


Process:

🫂 Become brutally honest with yourself about what you want - Remove "shoulds & supposeds to" + rules you heard outside + what is the "right/wrong" way of living your life according to society, your family, environment, etc.

🖊  Develop mindset practices  (journaling, meditation, being coached, therapy, talking to a friend) that help you understand what you really want instead of living your life on autopilot

❌  Drop the belief there is a "right/wrong" way of living your life. There is no greater authority judging you!

💖 Practice unconditional self-love 

💎 Incorporate new beliefs that support you, find mentors whose messages resonate with you 

✨ Deepen the connection to your inner guidance (it can be through mindset practices such as meditation, journaling, movement, writing your values, goals, vision, future journaling, visualization, etc.)


Journal prompts:

👉If I could have anything what would I want?

👉 If I was 100% honest with myself what would I want?


Question all the thoughts that start with: "I should.." 

Do you, babe! 


BTW: The book we mention in this episode: Anita Moorjani - What If This is Heaven



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On Her Own TermsBy Niki Socratous