Our guest hosts, Chani and Yonah, and their featured guests discuss:

1. The great compromise - How rigid should your lifestyle expectations be? Reconciling differences in areas such as upbringing, child-rearing, food preference and money-spending.

2. Deciding you’re not compatible

• Are you being too picky?

• How to point out concerning behaviors to the shadchan

3. Personality tests/horoscopes- are they a good barometer?

4. Friends/Family

• What do you do when your family/their family expresses clear distaste for the shidduch? (Elope? Break it off? Work it out?)

• What if you like them, but can’t stand their friends/family?

• What do you if a friend intervenes and says they think it’s a bad shidduch?

5. Comfort with expressing disagreement- becoming comfortable telling your date that you disagree, and being told that they disagree with you