In this engaging episode of the Bitter to Better podcast, I welcome back my friend and family constellations facilitator, Mattie Clark, for an informal yet insightful conversation. We dive into the intricacies of dating and relationships, focusing on the importance of having the exclusivity conversation. Mattie shares updates on her Rerooted Rebels program, which aims to integrate family constellations into a 90-day journey. We discuss the challenges and societal pressures women face when navigating romantic relationships. Our dialogue explores the necessity of explicit agreements in relationships to build trust and avoid the pitfalls of premature exclusivity.

We also delve into the power dynamics at play in dating, particularly how women often feel disempowered and the importance of reclaiming that power through intentional conversations and decisions. Mattie and I reflect on personal experiences and societal influences that shape our understanding of commitment and exclusivity. We touch on the generational shifts in dating norms and the role of playfulness in empowering women to navigate romantic interactions more effectively. This episode is a thoughtful exploration of how to approach dating with clarity and confidence, ensuring that both partners are on the same page.

Mattie Clark (she/they) is a family and systemic constellations facilitator, writer, and educator. She brings soul-centric insight to conversations on grief, belonging, and transformation, working with individuals, couples, and groups. Find her @mattiemclark and at mattieclark.com.