I didn’t go on my first date until I was 21.

No, I wasn’t ugly.
No, I wasn’t unwanted.
And no, it wasn’t because I “just hadn’t found the one.”

In this episode, I’m giving you the inside story of what it was really like growing up in purity culture — how it shaped my relationship with dating, why I got a late start, and the unspoken rules that had me sitting on the sidelines while everybody else was outside.

We’re talking:

• The “good girl” expectations nobody warned us about

• How “guard your heart” turned into guard your whole life

• What it feels like to think you’re behind

• And why you might not be late… you were just following the rules

This one is honest, a little funny, and very real. If you’ve ever felt behind in love, this episode is going to feel like a deep exhale.

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