Healing Myself

Ep. 36: Get free or die trying.


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It's Juneteenth, and there couldn’t have been a more perfect time to talk about something our community holds onto quite dearly—FREEDOM. 

Nina Simone said: "I'll tell you what freedom is to me: no fear." It’s a powerful statement that we came to unpack today, among other things: 

  • What does it look like to be our most authentic and best selves? 

  • What does it look like to live, not just exist? To thrive, not just survive?

  • How do we come alive again? 

Come join the conversation. We’d love to hear about your freedom journey. 


WHAT TO LISTEN FOR: 

What it means to be free [6:38] 

  • Who am I as a person? Am I living my freest version, politics aside?

  • Am I to the best of my ability? 

  • Are the plans I made for myself going to happen? 

  • Freedom = no fear 

  • Freedom = giving yourself permission to just live and be on the journey

Freedom in action [12:20]

  • Not being too hard on yourself 

  • Getting rid of self-judgment and self-doubt 

  • Refraining from trying to meet ridiculous standards 

The haze of obtaining freedom [22:34] 

  • It’s not something that you achieve; it’s a state of being

  • The courage to become vulnerable 

  • The inner critic that fosters self-doubt 

  • The difficulty of letting go of the guilt and shame

Navigating through the haze [27:58] 

  • Finding new information (books, therapy, etc.)

  • Meditation and prayer 

  • Learning to have complete confidence in yourself 

Lesson about freedom [32:58] 

  • Freedom is a choice 

  • You can embrace the experience of all your emotions, but don’t be controlled by them


RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE

Secret Lives of the Super Rich

Listen to Free by Perri Jones

The Slight Change of Plans - Podcast by Maya Shankar


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Healing MyselfBy Scott and Shaté Hayes