He was polite... and poison. On paper, he was kind, thoughtful, and said all the right things. But somewhere between the compliments and the check, I realized: niceness isn't the same as emotionally healthy. In this episode, I'm breaking down the date that looked great from the outside but left me feeling confused and disconnected. Let's talk about why charm can't replace accountability, and why being "nice" isn't enough. This one's for anyone who's ever second-guessed their gut because someone seemed too polite to be a problem.