WE'RE NOT GOING BACK

Ep. 36 - Why Not You, Right Now?


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Ever see other women achieving amazing things in life, and you don’t think you can do the same?

Why not?  Why not you, and why not right now?

If your most impossible, secret dream even, could come true, what would it be? It doesn’t cost anything to dream… So, what’s your most amazing dream that you wish could come true for you?

It can be anything you desire, maybe even seemingly impossible! Maybe something no one you actually know has ever done.

What if you dared go after your dream(s) and in the process became a role model for others like you?

EVEN if it took years!!

What’s the worst that can happen??  If you knew you could attain whatever you wanted, what would you do first in order to progress towards achieving it? What’s stopping you?

Is it fear of failing? Fear of dreaming too big? Fear of what other people will say?  You have no time, you lack the skills, you have no money (there are free resources) to invest in yourself?

Because I can tell you that none of these reasons are a good enough excuse. They’re not for me, and they’re not for you either.

Will you fail?  YES, you will but so what? Just make sure you fail forward!

Or maybe it’s that you’re dreaming too big? So what, you think you’re the first one to ever dream too big?

Will people talk about you and judge you?  For sure, and so what?  This is just fear talking… it happens to me, to all of us!!

The opinion that matters most about ourselves, is our own.  At least it’s the only opinion that should matter most. In fact, we don’t really know other people’s opinions are of us, we only imagine them!

It’s really only my own opinion of myself that keeps me small or propels me forward!

Other people’s (secret) opinion of us, neither hurt us nor help us… they’re irrelevant.


START HERE… FIND YOUR THING:

If something (that maybe people you look up to) is not “your thing” that’s OK, but what IS your thing?

I’ve tried things that ended up not being my thing once I tried them, even though I see others doing those things successfully.

We have to “try on” things… much like shopping! You haven’t bought every dress you ever tried on… same thing here.  Are you getting it??

Life coaching feels amazing to me… and here is why… I can help women just about anywhere, with pretty much anything, from home or anywhere else!

I make money doing it, and the more women I help the more money I make!

I set my own hours, I have more time to be with my family, and I have the BEST boss!!

So… What’s your thing? Do you know?  Tell me, I want to know and/or I want to help you discover what it is!!

Lastly, get help from someone who’s slightly ahead of you… like just even 3 steps ahead, and here’s why – so it doesn’t feel like a daunting goal to go after.  When we see others who are not too high up from where we want to be, it feels easier to go after our dreams.

Also get as much free help as you can and do not think that because something is free it’s not valuable. You’re still paying for it with your time… time being your most valuable resource.  Make everything count!


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WE'RE NOT GOING BACKBy Addie Scharff