🎙️ What’s This Episode About?

Thomas Hartley is known to many from Married at First Sight UK, but these days, you’re just as likely to find him onstage as his drag alter ego, Pam Sandwich.

Tom joins John to talk about his early days on the gay scene, what life was really like after the cameras stopped rolling on MAFSUK, and how drag became a way to reconnect with who he really is. They chat about confidence, identity, starting over, and the birth of Pam; a performer who’s as bold, brash and brilliant as the person behind her.

From reality TV to real-life reinvention, it’s a conversation about making space for yourself, one platform (and one performance) at a time.

Funny, open and full of heart.

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