In this episode of The Untethered Podcast, I’m unpacking the identity shift I didn’t see coming and why it hit harder than any strategy ever could. With the energetic reset of Chinese New Year and stepping into 2026, I share what happens when we get addicted to being perceived as the saviour and how that quietly creates chaos, codependency, and a life that doesn’t actually feel like yours.

In this episode:

• Identity shift + energetic patterns driving your life.

• The saviour/martyr loop and why vanity metrics keep you stuck 

• How projections and triggers reveal the parts you can’t see yet

• Sovereignty, autonomy, and choosing truth over approval 

• Closing the gap between current self and becoming self 

  
  

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Key moments of this interview:

0:14 Chinese New Year Identity Reset

3:06 Going Viral Felt Horrible

6:42 “Abbey Is A God”

9:13 Earth Angel Hierarchy Trap

12:33 Defending Yourself Proves Doubt

15:22 Truth Is Unfuckwithable

18:26 No One Person Saves All

21:31 This Isn’t Sovereignty

24:25 Business Reflects Your Energy

28:18 Boundaries Become Ego

31:22 When Identity Crumbles

34:16 Fear Of Crucifixion

More about Abbey Rose:

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Instagram: @thespiritualaccountant

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