The rings are on, but the date isn't set. Today on Arguing Ever After, we’re debating the "forever engagement." Taking a page out of the Broadway classic Guys and Dolls, we ask: Are you living a real-life version of Miss Adelaide and Nathan Detroit’s 14-year stalemate?

Is a decade-long engagement a romantic choice or a massive red flag? We break down the psychology of the "permanent fiancé" and when it's time to finally "Sit Down, You're Rockin' the Boat."

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