Elisha and Shannon have always been open about their past struggles with alcoholism, and what it took to get back on the path to sobriety. But what happens when you're in a relationship defined by alcoholism, and you break away... but your partner doesn't? In this deeply personal episode, Elisha reveals the history behind her recent break up with a partner of 15 years, and how she's no longer living with excuses of guilt, shame, or commitment. Both of your RTRC hosts strongly believe that being visible in discussing alcoholism can literally save lives, and Elisha has now freed herself from the ongoing dread of expecting a visit from the police with tragic news at 2am. The hard work that she's invested in herself over the past few years has given her the strength to step out on her own - to put herself and her children first - while keeping compassionate distance from her ex's self destructive behaviors. This is an intimate, critical conversation that needs to be heard. If you or someone you love is struggling with alcoholism or addiction, please reach out via DM - while Shannon and Elisha are not professionals, they do have the experience and resources to help set you on a healthy path. And P.S. Elisha is now ready for dating recs, just sayin'.

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