Secured Healed Evolved: SHE

Ep. 4 | The Dependency Paradox: Why Dependency Isn't a Bad Word


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In this episode, Angie discusses the concept of dependency and the dependency paradox in the context of anxious attachment. She emphasizes that dependency is a normal and natural desire as human beings, and it is healthy when practiced in the right doses. Angie  explains that being dependent on others actually increases our independence. She highlights the importance of practicing vulnerability and taking risks in order to become secure. By being present in the moment and trusting in ourselves, we can build unbreakable relationships and pursue our passions.

Keywords

dependency, dependency paradox, anxious attachment, vulnerability, practice, present moment, trust, unbreakable relationships, pursue passions

Takeaways

  • Dependency is a normal and natural desire as human beings, and it is healthy when practiced in the right doses.
  • Being dependent on others actually increases our independence.
  • Practicing vulnerability and taking risks is essential to becoming secure.
  • Being present in the moment and trusting in ourselves allows us to build unbreakable relationships and pursue our passions.
  • Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Dropping into the Episode

    06:13 Understanding the Dependency Paradox

    10:56 The Internal Battle of Anxious Attachment

    15:52 The Importance of Practicing Vulnerability

    21:22 You Are Not Your Attachment Style

    31:14 Dependency as a Catalyst for Independence

    36:31 Closing Remarks and Call to Action

    37:24 Connect with Angela Martinez and Access Exclusive Content

    38:02 Join the Exclusive Free Facebook Group for Live Coaching Calls

    38:31 Explore a Wealth of Free Resources

    38:59 Expressing Gratitude and Farewell

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    Secured Healed Evolved: SHEBy Angie Martinez