Do you remember when you were young, and an adult intervened when you were having an argument with a peer?

Invariably one of you would declare, "I'll stop when he stops." As though you were incapable of changing the course of your behavior unless someone else took the lead.

Now flash forward, imagine you still do this as an adult and trust me you do. It's holding you back in ways you don't realize. Please listen this to discover how this little habit sabotages you in a big way and what you can do about it.