Healing Myself

Ep. 43: It's not you, it's me.


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Change can bring about friction in relationships, but it's important to remember that this friction is often a result of our own growth and evolution. 

Today, we dig deep into a topic that many of us can relate to - navigating through change and its impact on our relationships. It can be challenging to understand the changes we're going through and how they will affect our relationships, but that's why we're here to talk about it.


WHAT TO LISTEN FOR:

Navigating personal growth and change in relationships  [1:29]

  • Honoring feelings and emotions and giving voice to them

  • The impact of personal growth on relationships

  • Balancing the need to assert oneself and maintain relationships

  • Understanding that personal growth may lead to friction in relationships

  • Breaking away from a pattern of people-pleasing

  • Maintaining relationships while undergoing change and personal growth.

Indicators of change in relationships [10:18]

  • Things that worked before, don't work anymore. 

  • Relationships can change and indicate friction.

  • Personal growth and life changes can shape individuals differently.

  • A season of preparation may be needed for a fruitful relationship.

  • Relationships go through transitions and growth.

The evolution and changing the seasons of relationship [30:58]

  • The idea of "not everyone can come with you" doesn't mean throwing people away, but rather that everyone can't have a front seat in your life.

  • Relationships can change as people get older and life gets more complicated

How longevity in relationship happens [22:09]

  • Being intentional in what we do

  • Figuring out a way to remain in alignment

  • Producing for each other in ways that feel good


RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE

  • 2009 by Mac Miller

  • Everything Must Change by Quicny Jones


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Healing MyselfBy Scott and Shaté Hayes