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Ep. 43 - You Are the Secret Sauce
If there’s anything currently in your life, not to your liking… the secret sauce to fixing it is YOU!!
It’s all inside YOUR brain!!
Today we’ll be discussing how to improve marriage/relationships, and how you’re the secret sauce to that.
Focusing specifically on love/marriage relationships.
I want you to pay attention because if YOU are having tumultuous/difficult relationships, especially with different people in your life… YOU are the common denominator here, and you must start leading in the right direction.
I once heard these words: “your marriage can as amazing as YOU want it to be.” This blew my mind and sent my brain into spiral thinking, and ideas as to how this was possible, if my spouse was not on board with it???
One question came to mind at some point after that… “if I were, say a queen, would my husband treat me differently?” And what came back was a resounding YES, he would!!
This told me that what I needed to change was not him, but my thinking as to WHO I was BEING.
In other words, if your husband is treating only you badly, but then he goes to work, the grocery store, church… and treats other women differently, it’s because he knows these other women will not stand for it.
Why does he feel he can behave differently with you/with me??
This is a very deep subject, with many variables and very specific to every couple. But what I want you to think about is this…
* What kind of marriage/relationship do you want to have?
* Do you believe you can have this with your current partner?
* Do you love your current partner, and do you believe he loves you?
Some tips to try, IF you want to, if you trust, feel safe (if this is not the case get help!), and if you love your partner enough to desire to improve your relationship:
* Do you behave in a way that will nurture the kind of relationship you want to have?
* How do you greet him when he comes home?
* How do you say goodbye when he leaves?
* How often do you kiss and hug each other?
* How to do you say good night and good morning?
* Are you (or trying to be) the kind of wife/partner he envisions, and that you envision being if he were to treat you the way you deserve to be treated? Act as if was already happening.
If you want more romance, do you make an effort to foster a romantic atmosphere in your home, especially in the bedroom? The bedroom is where you come together at night, so look at it and make it feel the way you want it, and hopefully the way he would want it. The bedroom should be a restful place where you come together to restore your relationship every night, where your souls reunite and reconcile after each day’s events.
That’s what I have for you today… hopefully it comes in handy in some way.
Let’s connect on...
INSTAGRAM: @women.rising.together
https://www.instagram.com/women.rising.together/
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By Addie ScharffIf there’s anything currently in your life, not to your liking… the secret sauce to fixing it is YOU!!
It’s all inside YOUR brain!!
Today we’ll be discussing how to improve marriage/relationships, and how you’re the secret sauce to that.
Focusing specifically on love/marriage relationships.
I want you to pay attention because if YOU are having tumultuous/difficult relationships, especially with different people in your life… YOU are the common denominator here, and you must start leading in the right direction.
I once heard these words: “your marriage can as amazing as YOU want it to be.” This blew my mind and sent my brain into spiral thinking, and ideas as to how this was possible, if my spouse was not on board with it???
One question came to mind at some point after that… “if I were, say a queen, would my husband treat me differently?” And what came back was a resounding YES, he would!!
This told me that what I needed to change was not him, but my thinking as to WHO I was BEING.
In other words, if your husband is treating only you badly, but then he goes to work, the grocery store, church… and treats other women differently, it’s because he knows these other women will not stand for it.
Why does he feel he can behave differently with you/with me??
This is a very deep subject, with many variables and very specific to every couple. But what I want you to think about is this…
* What kind of marriage/relationship do you want to have?
* Do you believe you can have this with your current partner?
* Do you love your current partner, and do you believe he loves you?
Some tips to try, IF you want to, if you trust, feel safe (if this is not the case get help!), and if you love your partner enough to desire to improve your relationship:
* Do you behave in a way that will nurture the kind of relationship you want to have?
* How do you greet him when he comes home?
* How do you say goodbye when he leaves?
* How often do you kiss and hug each other?
* How to do you say good night and good morning?
* Are you (or trying to be) the kind of wife/partner he envisions, and that you envision being if he were to treat you the way you deserve to be treated? Act as if was already happening.
If you want more romance, do you make an effort to foster a romantic atmosphere in your home, especially in the bedroom? The bedroom is where you come together at night, so look at it and make it feel the way you want it, and hopefully the way he would want it. The bedroom should be a restful place where you come together to restore your relationship every night, where your souls reunite and reconcile after each day’s events.
That’s what I have for you today… hopefully it comes in handy in some way.
Let’s connect on...
INSTAGRAM: @women.rising.together
https://www.instagram.com/women.rising.together/
PRIVATE & FREE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: WomenRisingTogether2021
Women Rising Together | Facebook