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Episode 44 - It’s Not Supposed to Be This Hard

This week, we’re talking about the myth that love should be effortless.
If you really love each other, it should always be easy… right?
Yeah, no. Not even close.

We get into what healthy hard looks like vs the kind of hard that drains your spirit.
We talk boundaries, emotional exhaustion, second marriages, and why “always” and “never” will set your heart up for disappointment.

Tamra opens up about the weight of letting go of relationships — even when you know you’re better without them — and Sidney breaks down why more good days than bad days isn’t luck, it’s work.

Plus, we get into Halloween chaos at Tamra’s school, cupcakes, push-ups, and the ongoing saga of “Why are children like this?”

It’s thoughtful, real, funny, and one of those conversations that sits with you after you listen.