Everyone learns, experiences, and grows in life differently. Some people figure things out after making one mistake, and others take longer than most.  Sometimes, the fastest transformations don’t come until we hit our 40s or 50s. We carry lies we were told as children, often times, forgetting to update our belief system through the course of our lives. This is where we get stuck. Holding on to past hurts. Being unwilling to forgive and liberate ourselves from useless emotions of fear, shame, and guilt. The great news is, those who have figured it out have been successful in helping others break through these emotionally handicaps.  Today’s guest is one of those people.

Michelle Fuller is Founder of One Bold MF and is a transformation coach, lifestyle engineer, speaker, and contributing author who works with women to help them kick fear to the curb and finally get to making a commitment to the one person who matters most…………themselves.

Jeff and Michelle have a great conversation leading into today’s episode talking about the how the meaning of addicted to winning is choosing incredible over mediocre.  She shares how over much of her life, she chose to settle because she didn’t know she had a choice. Michelle cites having no regrets in her life leading up to the present day.  Jeff highlights Michelle’s company name and she shares how she helps women purse through their blockages from the past. Michelle gets vulnerable sharing her relationship with her mother.  She makes the connections of how her mindset kept her from flourishing in relationships with men.  Michelle uncovers some pivotal moments that finally released her from attracting the same type of man, and the hurts of the past that kept her stuck in life starting with choosing forgiveness.   

 

What You’ll Learn: 

• The impact of the death of Michelle’s mother 
• How many times Michelle was married in 10 years and how many children she had
• Why you shouldn’t be afraid of fear 
• What it truly means to be authentic and the process Michelle used to find her unique voice
• How much Michelle weighed when she graduated from high school 
• The stories Michelle told herself about the nature of men and why she kept attracting the same type of men 
• One thing that kept Michelle going through the turmoil of her 20s as a 2x divorced single mom
• A moment the therapist revealed how Michelle could change who she was and who was at the center of her suspended animation in life 
• One pivotal conversation Michelle had with a former boyfriend that liberated her from a life-suffocating cycle
• Why it’s important to forgive those who wrong you immediately

• And much more! 

  

Favorite Quote:

 “I’m never going to say that I’m comfortable with people hating me. Noone is comfortable with that. That is a lie, but I can be comfortable with the feeling and then letting it go, and then realizing at the end of the day, it has nothing to do with me. It has everything to do with them and I’m just going to keep doing what I feel is right. As long as I’m in integrity, I have no problem with what you think of me.”   

• Michelle Fuller   

 

Connect With Michelle: 

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Book: The Greatest Lessons I Learned from My Mom 

 

How to Get Involved:

Addicted to Winning connects listeners through stories that prove why mindset matters. Jeff Brekken was working a 60-hour week on his family’s farm by the time he was 10. When he wasn’t helping with the harvest, he was at the hockey rink. Jeff’s early life experiences taught him he needs to be either all-in or all-out. 

In 2000 he started a single-family home construction business and by 2008 he was looking for his next big thing. Jeff founded the Blue Sky Benefit Solutions & Rise Above HR/Recruiting on top of a lifelong passion for helping people. Through this show, Jeff will take that passion one step further.

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