Do you think you're experiencing Poly under duress? This is a term gaining popularity in the polyamorous community and a situation that is very serious. In polyamory, it is common when opening up a relationship to have one partner introduce the idea, sometimes in messy, unhelpful or thoughtless ways.

Sometimes the boundaries they set around their own polyamorous identity or need can feel very hurtful to their monogamous partner. Does this mean this person or this relationship is toxic and they are trying to coerce or force you into polyamory? Let's talk about it.

Join Certified Relationship and Sexuality Coaches Greg & Leanne Million as they examine what duress is, what it isn't and offer their perspectives. (With a side trip about manipulation.) Sometimes understanding your situation can provide clarity and help you feel more empowered to make choices for yourself.