Communication Compass

Ep: 49 - Grief and Family: When We Don’t Grieve the Same Way


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Grief doesn’t follow rules—and it doesn’t look the same for everyone.

In this deeply human episode of Communication Compass, we explore what happens when families grieve differently. Why do some people cry openly while others throw themselves into logistics? How can families avoid judging each other’s grief? And what does it mean to mourn someone who’s still physically alive but emotionally gone?

Through research, real stories, and compassionate insight, you’ll learn how to recognize different grieving styles, navigate conflict during loss, and support loved ones through both death and ambiguous loss—like dementia, addiction, or estrangement.

Because grief doesn’t mean we’re broken. It means we loved deeply—and we’re still learning how to live with that love.

Resources Mentioned:
📚 Loving Someone Who Has Dementia – Pauline Boss
📚 It’s OK That You’re Not OK – Megan Devine
📚 The Other Side of Sadness – George Bonanno
📚 Grieving Beyond Gender – Kenneth Doka & Terry Martin

Keywords: grief, family grief, grieving styles, ambiguous loss, dementia, emotional processing, communication in grief, family conflict, bereavement, coping with loss, grief and relationships

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Communication CompassBy Malynnda Stewart, PhD, BCPA