When people cannot understand you, they will judge you. If you do not fit into their bubble, if you challenge their beliefs, if you start living differently than what they believe “the truth” is - you are immediately treated as other, as unseen, as wrong, as needed to be guided back. They will speak to their ego and say “ I am a good religious person, I will not judge them for the whore that they are, for the lost soul that I'm viewing, for the person who needs help. Never noticing how toxic, judgemental, and destructive to their own soul they are being. They will pray for your guidance back to the Lord. Prayers accompanied by commentary with fellow friends on the same wavelength. Unable to see people as individuals capable of finding their own truth outside of what they believe in, who do not need their tired prayers rooted in judgment, their own perception, the perception of their community, their safety blanket, their egotistical need to point at you to drown out the ill feelings that live within them that they continue to run from.