We tend to define our IDENTITY by our experiences, activity, or relationships. 

Whatever gives us our highest value is the place we try to validate ourselves. For men, that typically comes from work - since most of our day's hours are spent doing that. Typically, we are introduced by name and profession.

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Everything in this world is temporary and changing all the time.. When we try to attach to anything in this world, we try to fight and defend the to keep things that are fleeting. It’s all going to end @ some point. If our identity is there at the end then we wonder where we have been and what we have been doing and we are going to be left confused.