This week on Affirm That Sh!t, I’m joined by the unstoppable Bobby Mendez. Born into the strict rules of a Mennonite community, Bobby grew up in a world where beauty, fashion, and self-expression were forbidden. But she had other plans. From styling her sheep “Glitz and Glamour” as a girl to becoming the proud owner of The Glamour Room, Bobby fought her way into a life she once only dreamed about.

Her story is a battle cry for every woman told to stay small. At 40, she walked onto the pageant stage—and walked off crowned Miss Queen of the World 2025. That crown wasn’t just for her. It was for every woman who’s ever been told she can’t. Along the way, Bobby built a thriving salon, survived the chaos of COVID-19, and launched nonprofits like Operation Dignity and Money Mindset—programs dedicated to empowering the homeless and educating young people about financial freedom.

We talk about resilience, the cost of freedom, and the divine purpose that comes with embracing your gifts. Bobby’s not just a pageant queen. She’s a changemaker, a mother, a dreamer, and a fierce reminder that it’s never too late to choose yourself. If you’ve ever been stuck in the cage of other people’s expectations, this episode will set your soul on fire.

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