This is gonna be about love, how it is shown how it relates to you. Which of the main five do you think is most important. Listen in and I'm gonna go through all the points below and rub some philosophy on them. 

The five main love languages: 

Words of affirmation
Quality time
Gifts 
Acts of service 
Touch 

The five deeper love languages:

Understanding you partners trauma
Nervous System Awareness (NSA)
Commitment to each others freedom
Knowing when your egos are speakin
Non-judgement and non-interference