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As parents, we think we’re just watching class.
But our kids are listening… closely.

What you look for in training becomes their inner voice.
And that voice follows them long after they step off the mats.

This episode came from a quiet moment on a beach in Mexico…
and it turned into one of the most important parenting lessons I’ve learned through martial arts.

Instead of scanning for mistakes, I’ll show you how to use a simple filter that helps your child build real confidence, resilience, and courage over time.

Inside this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why your attention shapes your child’s mindset
• The hidden danger of focusing on mistakes
• How effort builds confidence faster than talent
• Why mistakes don’t matter as much as recovery
• The three behaviours that actually predict long-term success

This isn’t about more rules.
It’s about choosing better lenses as a parent.

👉 Watch with this question in mind:
What am I training my child to notice about themselves?

🎥 Watch next:
Life Skills Through Martial Arts
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⏱️ Timecodes

00:00 The beach lesson I didn’t expect
00:38 What changes when you get closer
01:12 Parenting works the same way
01:48 Why kids hear mistakes louder
02:04 The Three Shells filter
02:10 Shell 1: Effort
02:40 Shell 2: Reset
03:12 Shell 3: Bravery
03:42 The voice you’re creating

📌 About Off The Mat Podcast
We help parents and martial artists raise strong kids through martial arts and mindset.
Our mission is to share lessons on confidence, discipline, and character that last a lifetime… on and off the mats.

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