Stigmatized Dating - Divorce, Broken Engagement, Long Term Relationships, etc…    

In today’s day and age, we have hopefully moved past a place where we allow stigmas about people to decide whether or not they are dateable, and should be given a chance. 

Emotional scars from entering and exiting these relationships and whether or not you are still carrying your baggage. 

Do shadchanim, daters, parents etc judge people who’ve gone through these experiences more harshly? 

Is it better to enter marriage having never had a serious relationship or not? 

Are frum people behind the 8 ball on divorce and breakups (Average divorce rate 50% amongst Non jews

Are the Jewish divorce laws stacked against frum women?

Should our community have more divorces? 

Better to stay in a bad relationship or stay together 

Disadvantages of dating when you are younger (unaware) 

Have rabeim become to involved in marital problems and no longer understand the scope of healthy marriages

People used to say “they didn’t do enough research, things were hidden”. Is this a real thing? Are people just blinded to their own biases based on what they want.