Radiant In Real Life with Beth Medley

Ep 59 - What's My Attachment Style?


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Welcome to the Radiant in Real Life Podcast, where we dive into topics related to life, leadership, and the pursuit of Jesus.

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In Episode 59, we talked about:

  • Attachment styles and how they impact leadership, relationships, and personal growth.

  • The four attachment styles and how they show up in our behaviors:

    • Secure Attachment — Confident, emotionally intelligent, and creates safe environments.

    • Anxious Attachment — Craves reassurance, struggles with boundaries, and often leans into people-pleasing.

    • Avoidant Attachment — Appears cold or distant, struggles with vulnerability, and avoids emotional connection.

    • Disorganized Attachment — A combination of craving connection yet fearing closeness, often unpredictable and reactive.

  • How these attachment styles can influence leadership, from over-pleasing team members to struggling with delegation or emotional connection.

  • Encouragement that your attachment style isn’t set in stone — healing and growth are possible with intentional work and God’s grace.

  • Practical tips for moving toward secure attachment, including:

    • Self-assessment — Honestly evaluating your attachment patterns and seeking feedback from trusted people.

    • Practicing vulnerability — Taking small steps toward emotional openness and healthy connection.

    • Emotional regulation — Using somatic practices and grounding techniques to calm the nervous system.

    • Turning to Jesus — Recognizing Christ as the ultimate secure attachment — steadfast, faithful, and always present.

  • A powerful prayer inviting listeners to receive God’s grace and healing as they grow into healthy, secure relationships.

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