Unfiltered Tea Podcast

EP. 6 | Friendships: Girls vs. Guys


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Back then they would say guys and girls couldn't be friends without some sort of romance developing, and it was probably true because women stays at home and men were in the work force. If there was any sort of communication it was assumed that it was a romantic. Clearly that's not the case in the 21st century because people have learned to become friends with the opposite sex without the sexual tension. 
I have always been that girl that connected with guys easier than girls because I never really got involved in drama, and all the nonchalant assumptions that comes with being part of a girl gang. Even though in high school, I really wanted to be a cheerleader so I can be part of the popular girl gang, I slowly started to realize I was never the type of girl that belong to a specific group and I decided to be friends with girls/guys who I vibe with. What I think is fascinating is the way people react when they find out that you either don't have any friends or you don't have enough friends of the same sex. I don't think people should be judged or criticized based on the number of girlfriends or guy friends they have. I totally get the saying "the company you keep reflects your personality", and there is some truth to it, but I don't think it defines the person completely. I know my group of friends come from all walks of life, but I still do my best to stay true to myself. The older you get the more you become comfortable in your own body and that's when you realize that its not about the quantity, but the quality of friends regardless if its girls or guys. This episode is going to discuss the varies differences between girls vs. guy friendships, but in a girls perspective.
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Unfiltered Tea PodcastBy MJ