It is a hard time getting out of our heads. So we stay stuck because we are focused on the past or future rather than the present. This rings true for me. Getting in my head blocks me of what God has for me and allows for stubbornness. It's so freeing when we stop planning our perfect lives and focus on the present. And how do we focus on the present? By focusing on others. Its all we have so we have to make it count like Jesus.