One of the hardest situations in my life ended up being one of the biggest blessings that God used to bring me out of a victim mindset!!! Healing, self-awareness and operating out of a gratitude/abundance mindset instead of always feeling like the victim, is so important for us to be who God has called us to be. 

If you're in a situation right now that is breaking you, know that God isn't using you to break you down - rather to break the parts of you that he needs you to leave behind, in order to come into who He has created you to be <3