Get ready for a trip down memory lane in this episode of **The Sispatch** as Bevin and Jasmine dive into the world of first relationships, with a very special guest—Bevin's husband, Thomas! From their quirky meeting in an AOL chat room to the early days of singing Disney songs to break the ice, we're unpacking all the sweet and hilarious beginnings of their relationship.

But that's not all. We'll also explore the twists and turns of telling their families, navigating their first challenges, and the funny stories that came along with blending their lives. Plus, don't miss out on the heartfelt tales of engagement and the love languages that keep their relationship strong.

Join us for this revealing and humorous conversation as we peel back the layers of our romantic pasts. So grab your headphones and your favorite iced beverage and let's revel in the nostalgia!

00:00 - Kickoff! Introduction and why we're excited for this episode.

03:00 - How It All Began: Meeting in AOL Chat Rooms.

07:59 - Dial-Up Romance: Transitioning to those long phone conversations.

14:58 - Early Days Alert: Dive into the start of Bevin and Thomas's relationship.

21:21 - Awkward Turtle Moments: Handling those silences that had us sweating.

23:01 - Big News: The lead-up to telling the parents.

23:28 - Parental Guidance: How our folks reacted when the news dropped.

30:05 - First Meeting IRL: The nerves, the expectations, and all the butterflies.

35:01 - Family Mash-Up: When our families met and started to mesh.

44:52 - From Digital to Real World: The evolution from online chats to actual dates.

45:35 - LOL Moments: Funny memories and the story of our first kiss.

47:01 - Family Encounters & Big Steps: Key relationship milestones.

51:33 - Popping the Question: The simple, sweet proposal story.

59:15 - Jasmine's Take: How this all influenced Jasmine's view on relationships.

01:05:57 - Talkin' Love Languages: All about acts of service and quality time.

01:11:18 - Memory Lane: Cherishing our favorite memories together.

01:12:31 - First Impressions: From not so hot to totally cool.

01:15:20 - Sister Act: How our relationship as siblings evolved with maturity.

01:19:27 - All the Feels: Expressing our appreciation and affection.

01:26:05 - Keeping It Light: The importance of humor in relationships.