Should men and women be friends? Here’s the truth: most guys who are “just friends” with a girl are either secretly hoping for more or too scared to walk away. We explore the myth of platonic guy-girl friendships, and the emotional intimacy that usually leads to one-sided feelings, drama, jealousy, or worse. Confusion isn’t kind, and friendship shouldn’t be a loophole for romantic activity without the clarity and definition of romantic pursuit.