Attractively Different Podcast

Ep. 65 | Why We Fail To Show Up Authentically In Relationships


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Life feels constricting and unsafe when we don't feel the acceptance of others.

We all define "acceptance" in different ways. Some manage attempt to find acceptance by being dominant any taking control. Others manage emotions by being passive and flexible. Others manage them being available and continually serving. Yet, all these actions create an environment where you're not showing up genuinely, and get stuck in this cycle of "performing" so that you will stay safe. However, staying in this performance mode prevents you from walking in your life purpose.

In today's episode, we discuss the reason why these behaviors prevent you from showing up authentically in your relationships.  We all desire to show up in a way that is genuine, and we also want to be loved and accepted for our inherent value. Learn the mindset shift that allows you the freedom to no longer feel the need to "perform" a certain way or do all the right things. It empowers you to operate within your design and fully function in the assignment that God has for you.

Key Takeaways:

  • We're all subconsciously seeking acceptance from the "herd" so we can get our needs met of love and significance.
  • Focusing on the labels given by others prevents you from showing up authentically
  • In order to know the purpose for anything you must consult the creator.
  • We're blind to these approval seeking behaviors because they're engrained in our subconscious.
  • Additional Resources:

    • Check out your free life coaching resource, Life Purpose Roadmap PDF, and learn how to prosper in your purpose.
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      Attractively Different PodcastBy Tom Hermann

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