Finishing school, job hunting, and freelancing create flexibility, but they also lack the structure you're used to, especially if you're a planner like me. Sometimes, we have to go back to our roots. Instead of beating yourself up for feeling unproductive during your idle time, ask yourself? Is there anything I can do today that will help me tomorrow?No dating tips this time, sorry. But when it comes to getting a job rejection, there's always something you can learn from them, lessons you can learn only if you ask the right questions with the right attitude.