At what point did basic effort become “too much”?

In this episode of It’s Her Again, we’re unpacking the lie women get fed when we ask for consistency, communication, reassurance, and intention.

Somehow:• Wanting clarity = pressure• Wanting effort = high maintenance• Wanting commitment = doing too much

But is it really too much…or is he just underqualified?

We’re talking about the bare minimum epidemic, why we start shrinking our standards when we get tired, and how to stop negotiating with your own needs just to keep someone around.

If you’ve ever been called “too much” for simply wanting to feel secure — this episode is your confirmation.

You’re not asking for too much.You’re asking the wrong person.

Press play if you’re done auditioning for basic treatment.

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