In this episode I coached Wendy B, a pleasure expert, coach and pole instructor. Wendy shared how she struggled with being assertive in her life, particularly in her business. She felt a misalignment between the standards she wanted to set and pleasing other people. 

 

We took a deep dive into the source of this behavior and revealed it stemmed from yearning for a sense of belonging that started as early as she can remember due to being adopted. We worked through how to reverse the beliefs that lead to the actions that frustrate her. We also discussed how her formative years have created the behaviors she wants to reverse. 

 

She walked away feeling a sense of relief and understanding. She shared that she was now ready to open up her 23&Me test results that she has had for over a year that will reveal information about her origin. She was afraid to open them up until this session.

 

If you resonate with my style of coaching and would like to take a deep dive into my 10 week coaching program, schedule a free connection call here. https://calendly.com/vanessamcneal/connectioncall

 

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