Healing Myself

Ep. 70: When you feel like giving up...


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Listen y'all, we have wanted to quit podcasting so many times. As recently as this weekend, we seriously entertained letting it go because life has been out here life-ing. But thankfully, we’ve gotten a reframing that’s helped us, and we hope it’ll help y’all too.


WHAT TO LISTEN FOR:

There will be moments when you feel like giving up [5:24]

  • We need to learn how to pivot and start all over again rather than moping over our loss 

  • Why taking your hands off of something could sometimes be a good thing 

  • The reason why most people quit 

  • Trusting the process and sticking through the uncomfortability 

  • Continually working towards something despite not having tangible results 

The haze of seeing through the ‘promise of purpose’ [17:09] 

  • Waiting could be a exhausting 

  • Our need to be always in control 

  • It’s hard to continue when we’re not certain with the outcome 

  • The struggle in finding the sweet spot between mindfulness and being future-focused 

  • Building the body of work while evolving

Navigating the haze [26:52]

  • Celebrating the pace of our progress, the small wins along the way 

  • Thinking of the possibilities that could go our way when we keep moving forward—possibility over prize 

Biggest lessons [35:49] 

  • Success doesn’t always mean reward as hard work is not always rewarded (and that’s okay!)

  • Impact alone is enough to keep pushing 


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Healing MyselfBy Scott and Shaté Hayes