We examine how to understand "Personal Responsibility" from a Christian perspective and how to apply this understanding to your life, your marriage, and how to use that personal responsibility to change how you anticipate and react to the problems in life.  When you have a problem come up in life do you ask yourself "Can I solve this problem?" or do you ask yourself "How will I solve this problem?". This change in perspective allows us to use that responsibility God has given to control the things in life we can control.