Handful of Leaves | Mindfulness & Buddhism in Everyday Life

Ep 8: Sex, virginity, and finding true love (ft Kyle and Hao)


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Our guests: 

Hao is the asian Ariana Grande, joining us today to share the perspective of how to look out for the “One” after dating 7 exes.

At a grand old age of "42", Kyle, a creative director had gave up looking for the one but he still wishes to be found in a relationship.



Transcript: here


Timestamps: 


(00:54): When to pursue a relationship?


(02:29): What happens when you settle for less


(05:54): Why add another layer of suffering by being in a relationship? 


(11:33): Loving is not equal to possession


(12:07): How to make a relationship work?


(17:54): Moving in before marriage 


(19:14): The four sure fire way to ruin a marriage 


(21:47): Complain vs criticism


(24:48): Sex education in the Asian context


(25:59): Losing your virginity before marriage


(29:41): Is having sex unwholesome?

 

(33:13): Summary


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Resources & Links

RAINBodhi (Singapore): https://rainbodhi.org/singapore/

Welcome the rainbow: https://sujato.github.io/rainbow/

Where to find Kyle: https://kyleneo.com/

Buddhist circle hao is in:

  • https://www.mettacentre.com/metta-festival/
  • https://www.facebook.com/MitraNetwork/
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