Why did Jesus use such harsh language about "hating" family and "carrying a cross"? In this episode, Henry Adesiji deconstructs the parable of the builder and explains the necessity of "sober faith." We discuss the psychological and spiritual dangers of half-hearted commitments and how to distinguish between "fanhood" and "followership." If you’ve felt like you’ve been stuck in a cycle of starting and quitting your spiritual habits, this teaching provides the foundation to finally see it through.

• Keywords: Luke 14:28, Cost of following Jesus, Henry Adesiji, Spiritual perseverance, Biblical building, Grace to finish.