In an effort to abandon all judgement, we may also unintentionally rule out all reason.
There was a time when Sean and I were both trying to allow each other to be FREE, but soon realized this mentality can backfire if we try to suppress our true feelings about certain things.
It's okay to speak up.
It's okay to set boundaries in your relationship.
It's okay to have requests of one another as long as you feel you are both equally compromising.
You can protect your marriage without trying to control or change one another.